Hello, i would like to share my story and ask for your advice, there's this girl i dated all through out my university days, though we were in different schools and she comes from a more comfortable home.
We were in love and it seemed the sky was the limit, but her family members always seemed to act cold whenever i was in their house, it did not really bother me in school, but she got a job through her parents and their attitude towards me worsened.
She also started acting funny as i was not employed and mobile like her, whenever we are together, she finds a way to put me down to the extent of ordering me out of her car after an argument.
I decided to let her be, she came back, begged and i forgave her. One day she told me she had a new boyfriend and we should call it quits, it was my turn to beg and cajole, but she stood her ground.
I was devastated but then my family and friends asked me to let her go, when she realised i was no longer calling or seeing her, she started begging me back and asking my friends to talk to me.
I still love her and my resolve is only strong when i don't see her, now she called and said she's in the hospital and she needs me beside her, my friends say i should ignore her. I don't know if i can love another girl the way i love her, but its starting to feel like a merry go round, i have a job now so i don't feel inadquate anymore, please advice me should i let her go or give her another chance?
*** In my opinion, i feel you should just concentrate on your job and life, since her family members don't even like you, what makes you feel they will change their minds later on and besides shine your eyes, the lady is just plain manipulative and does not love you. Tia
Well you should let her be for now, however it wont kill you to go and see her at the hospital as long as you can hold urself, no go there begin cry oh!
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